Anonymous: How can a girl like myself, get over my ex I tried everything. Should I just try and get him back?

Dear anonymous,

In my opinion, girl, you have two options. You can either block him and go through the emotional heartbreak that is crying everyday and missing him and basically just going through all the emotions of the breakup. Then eventually that period ends and you'll be able to recover, especially if you're able to forgive and understand the situation in your own way.

Your other option is to go back. Tell him you love him. Tell him again and again and again and again. Keep going back. Every single time he hurts you, just go back. I promise you, you'll get tired of it. I promise you'll realize it's not worth it, because whatever you think is there, it's probably not. That's why you broke up in the first place. Not saying the love isn't there, but love is not enough. Relationships require more. You should require more. More for yourself and more for your life. Not having him around is a big adjustment I know, but was his presence making your life better?

If you truly believe that your ex is the person for you and the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with. If he’s someone who you feel loves you and treats you right and cares for you in the way that you should be cared for—then go for it. But if not, if it's not everything that you need out of a relationship, do yourself a favor and pour into yourself everything that he didn't, everything that he couldn't. There's a reason he's your ex. Just saying ¯\_(ツ)_/¯